The character should have goals and interests outside of the romance. Are they an artist? An athlete? A student?
As we pulled back, I noticed that Emma was holding a tray with a steaming hot cup of coffee and a plate of freshly baked cookies. "I thought you might like a little something to make you feel welcome," she said, handing me the cup and plate.
As we talked, I noticed that Emma was wearing a big smile on her face. She seemed genuinely happy to have me around, and that made me feel more at ease.