Human psychology dictates that we value what we have to earn. When a person completely subordinates their needs to please someone else, the challenge disappears. 1. The Power of Independence
Despite the title, the book focuses more on than a step-by-step guide to a wedding. The premise is that when a woman stops focusing on "catching" a man and starts focusing on her own value, she naturally attracts high-quality partners who want to commit.
To understand why this archetype is so successful, it helps to contrast her with the "Nice Girl."